These articles are written to convey the fundamental problem of love on earth and what can be done by the individual to redress the balance in some way, especially in a relationship. I’ve been blessed to have been in a partnership for over twenty years with a woman who, to me, personifies love on earth. For love to endure in a partnership requires a sense of higher purpose. The purpose of love is simply to enjoy being together without any negativity interrupting the pleasure. It would seem preposterous to suggest that such a harmonious state of love is attainable.
However, it is possible to have an untroubled love; but not in a personal sense where both partners consider the feelings of the other, as is the case in normal relationships. A normal relationship is where couples accept that it is okay to argue periodically and demand love when they themselves are not giving sufficiently to love. In a normal relationship there is usually some kind of sexual trade-off that eases temporarily the friction between partners, enabling things to carry on reasonably smoothly. It’s not long, however, before a gradual build-up of emotional force and frustration is triggered when things inevitably deteriorate due to the lack of honesty in the partnership.
Lance Kelly
1) When a Man loves a Woman
2) Relationships: Living Love or Living Hell?
3) Sex- the Global Possession
4) The Light of Love
5) Love: the Eternal Mystery